If someone offers you dreams, do take them. I am honestly dismayed that the particularities are taken out of context, and it's utterly baffling. I love. I live. Such is a good life.

Also, if someone hates you, it's likely she hates the world at large. Because hatred is such a transferable emotion, one that mitigates not greatens values of self-worth.

Certain people hate with no cause, others purposefully. Avoid them

In between the situational and permanent cures for monomanias, there lies an answer: humbleness. Be humble. It's the difficult solution for a lot of these problems